Something came up tonight that has come up recently as well. My cousin said to me, "you are always in conrol, your emotions are always stable."
This past summer, I was critized for the same thing. When I was mad or aggitated, no one knew it. I was always in control of it and just dealt with the situation.
But, that was work. I am meant to be like that at work. I'm the boss. The boss should not be hot headed. At least, I don't think she should.
When my cousin said it though, I really thought about it. My own family thinks that about me. The problem is, I don't think that about me.
I feel like I'm a mess inside. Everything in my head is so jumbled, and I feel like, metaphorically, I don't know which way is up. I'm just trying to get through each day, and yet, to others I come off as stable. Interesting.